Change Your Language Guide

Change Your Life By Changing Your Words

Change Your Language Guide

Change Your Life By Changing Your Words

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This is the #1 most important step, to turn any fear or anxiety problem around

When Kristen works with any new client, right away she’s on the lookout for how they speak about Fear. The reason is… however they refer to this core emotion, speaks volumes about how they speak to themselves, and reveals the core of their issue.

For example, if they say things like ‘I hate fear,’ because fear is such a huge part of our makeup, it’s akin to saying ‘I hate myself.’  If they say ‘I ignore fear,’ it’s akin to saying ‘I ignore what’s going on in my life.’ Not only that, such language leads to emotional issues.

It works like this: imagine you have a lifelong roommate (fear) and you talk about him, say, in a controlling, dismissive or derogatory way. You say things like; ‘he’s not even real, he holds me back, he needs to be gotten rid of.’ Can you see that, under these circumstances, your roommate has no recourse but to fight back in an equally aggressive way?

Keep it up –over time you and fear only stay engaged in a mutually escalating war.

All this happens because of how to view and subsequently talk about fear. Until you stop such language, fear will continue to retaliate, and your emotional issue will only get worse.

" The best thing you can do to feel better, is to change your language about fear. Do this, not only will fear calm right down, but everything you want will follow. "

- Kristen Ulmer

Why This Works

Changing your language modernizes your perspective. It’s the crucial first step, leading to emotional change

Forever you’ve been taught to speak about fear as something to be overcome, let go of, controlled or rationalized away. This language creates the very environment, that causes your emotional problems in the first place. No one likes to be controlled or conquered, least of all an emotion as strong as fear.

It’s not just semantics either. Words matter.

How so? Ask yourself, what’s the first thing you’d think to do, to end a war with your roommate?

You’d start talking to and about him in a kinder way, that’s what. Which would soften things immediately.

The roommate (fear) will in turn, be kinder back. He’ll calm right down, and so too, will you.

Keep it up, your emotional issues will start to resolve.

Now, you may be thinking, “Hell no! Fear started it. He should talk nicer to me!” But you don’t want to stay in that outdated, exhausting mindset. Fighting a war with fear hasn’t worked for you, or for anyone. Resisting your biology, will not gain you the results you desire.

What will, is the new fear paradigm found in this guide –which better matches today’s evolving world and what we now understand.

But that shift won’t happen on its own. It comes if and only when you learn how to start speaking about fear in an inclusive way.

Who Is This Guide For?

Do you:

  • struggle with fear, anxiety, or other emotional issues

  • struggle with confidence

  • have a loved one who struggles with any of the above

  • speak about fear as if it’s a bad thing

  • are convinced fear is a bad thing

  • feel embarrassed about your fear or other emotional issues

  • suspect you repress or ignore fear, and know you shouldn’t do that

  • suspect that a more honest, considerate relationship with fear might be helpful

  • have kids, and want to make sure they grow up to be emotionally healthy adults

  • are tired of doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results

  • hate fighting a war with yourself, and want it to finally end

  • want to live either a bigger, more honest, or relaxed life

  • are tired of being stuck on old patterns, and feel ready to make a change

If any of these apply, you’ll be very excited by this language guide and what it offers.

Here's What You'll Learn

This is an actual dictionary, with specific and words and sentences you’ll use, to replace how you normally speak about fear. It’s extremely thorough, and covers hundreds of scenarios. Without this dictionary, because of existing cultural and learned norms you blindly come back to dismissive language again and again, which leads to emotional issues such as irrational fear, PTSD, insomnia, anxiety, depression and more. With it, these problems instead, are finally on target to become a thing of the past.

By studying this guide, you learn:

  • If you have a fear or anxiety problem, exactly what caused it

  • Why such problems are rampant in our society, based on old, outdated views about fear

  • How to end your war with fear, forever

  • How to stop negative self-talk without engaging in spiritual bypassing

  • How to speak about your fear / anxiety so you no longer feel embarrassed about it, or compelled to hide it

  • How to talk to others who struggle with fear or anxiety, in the proper way

  • What to say to someone who’s blaming their emotions on you

  • What to say to someone who’s shaming you for feeling fear

  • How to be vulnerable and have it feel real and non-threatening

  • How to be honest and authentic regarding what you feel, to yourself and others

  • What to say to your kids about fear, so they don’t grow up to have anxiety or other issues

  • What to say to your kids, so they grow up instead to be courageous, thriving adults

And much more…

A deep wisdom lies within you, that’s jumping up and down trying to get your attention.

Kristen will help you access it.

  • “Afterwards, I noticed that I felt lighter. In the days that followed, I noticed that my light feeling became clarity of mind. As the days went, the clarity didn’t go away (as I feared it would) and I began to notice that my emotions were more translucent and rose and fell, rather than overcoming me or creating a suffocating fog. I kept thinking it would wear off, but it hasn’t."


    - Olaf Kowalik

  • “My fear disappeared about three months ago. I have been public speaking without panic attacks and have experienced ease and spontaneous interaction with people I would have been intimidated by in the past. Also no constant free-floating anxiety in the background all the time. A great relief after 40 years of struggle. So, thank you.”


    - Mike Ginn

  • "The experience was outstanding. None of us will ever be the same."


    - Allen L Piper

  • "I wanted to thank you for changing my life. I don’t think I realized how much of an impact (your work) had on me until recently and it’s been a year since I attended. I knew it had an impact right after, but as time has gone on, there have been more and more lessons that pop up into my head that I never initially considered. I love that!"


    - Amy Epp

  • "Thank you hughly for all that you gave to us and everybody in that camp. It was just absolutely amazing. It’s not only a once in a lifetime experience but just from a teaching perspective some of the things you did were just really astonishing."


    - George Hart

  • "I am on this amazing turbo charged growth path – I am blooming faster and faster, at a wonderfully rapidly unfolding pace- there are truly no words to describe this. (Working with you) is one of the three BIGGEST events in my life that have helped me really turn a HUGE corner. I am deeply grateful!! Thank YOU!"


    - Martha Hamilton

  • "The whole experience was life-changing. I feel that something switched for me and I was shown a new way to see the world and myself.”


    - Alyson Dutch

  • “I could not have made it through such an intense transitional year without your teachings. I do not believe the words thank you are powerful enough.”


    - Cynthia Aherne

  • "If I can make that kind of change in one weekend, what else can I do? I feel like someone took my training wheels off."


    - Olaf Kowalik

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Take A Look Under The Hood

Now it’s your turn

Kristen has helped tens of thousands of clients make powerful perspective shifts around fear and anxiety

If you only take one single action step regarding your fear or anxiety, changing your language should be it. It’s crucial to make this shift, and will lead to the end of irrational fear, lower your anxiety, start the process to turn around PTSD or depression and so much more. Which is why in every course, event or talk, Kristen emphasizes changing your language first, and foremost.

Unlike anything you’ve ever seen or imaged before, this guide will dramatically change your perspective forever, thus changing how you talk to yourself about fear and anxiety, and to others.

Not only that, you’ll also be on the cutting edge of desperately needed progress, becoming an influencer the world needs to stop the madness of negative self talk. With this guide, you and others will quite simply, never experience fear, anxiety or the nature of the human experience the same way again.

Here’s how it works:

STEP 1 :  Click the Add to Cart button, then checkout using our secure checkout page

STEP 2 : You will immediately be sent a download link to view the guide

STEP 3 : You can always find the guide in the download section of My Account

STEP 4 :   Start reading, have that perspective shift, and start speaking your new inclusive language

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Get started now, you can't afford to wait.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why just $15?

If you’re thinking “$15 is nothing… what’s the catch?” Here are two reasons that should put your mind at ease:

-$15 puts this information within reach of everyone, from single moms to entrepreneurs and beyond.
-It makes sure you’re serious. Kristen only wants to reach people who are truly ready to address and resolve their emotional problems, and in her experience charging anything… even if it’s just a dollar, eliminates 99% of the folks who aren’t.

She also believe that once you experience the profound effects from merely changing your language, you’ll come back with an even greater curiosity to see what else is possible with this unique and powerful work.

And that’s it. No fine print, no weird twists. Just super practical language advice that will gain you a completely different perspective, and forever alter how you experience fear and anxiety.

Why should I buy this guide, versus keep doing what I've been doing?

If what you’ve been doing regarding fear and anxiety has helped, likely you want to keep it up, right?

But if you’ve only gotten limited results, or you find what you’ve been doing stops working the moment you stop practicing it –your fear or anxiety comes flooding right back– then it’s time to try this guide.

This guide is one of the first major steps you can take, toward getting away from the insanity of doing the same thing over and over and not getting different results. Here’s where you instead, try something entirely new. A new that could maybe (wink) just maybe, offer you better results that are more permanent and life altering, than what you’ve been doing.

Does what Kristen teaches, really work?

YES! Check out her testimonials. Plus, once you start to implement all that this work offers, it’s so shockingly obvious what the problem has been for you and what to do instead, you’ll be surprised you never thought of this before.

Is there a guarantee?

Of course! All of Kristen’s content and training’s have a 5-week, no-questions-asked guarantee.

If you aren’t happy for any reason, just let us know and we’ll give you your money back. We obviously don’t think it’ll come to that, but if you’re even the least bit worried, let us put your mind at ease. Either this will be a game changer that will set you on course to real change, or you get your money back. It’s that simple.

Tell me about the money back guarantee?

5-week money back guarantee. If you experience the guide and you don’t think it holds merit for you and your journey toward emotional health, send us an email and you’ll get a full refund.