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This is the #1 most important step, to turn any fear or anxiety problem around

When Kristen works with any new client, right away she’s on the lookout for how they speak about Fear. The reason is… however they refer to this core emotion, speaks volumes about how they speak to themselves, and reveals the core of their issue.

For example, if they say things like ‘I hate fear,’ because fear is such a huge part of our makeup, it’s akin to saying ‘I hate myself.’  If they say ‘I ignore fear,’ it’s akin to saying ‘I ignore what’s going on in my life.’ Not only that, such language leads to emotional issues.

It works like this: imagine you have a lifelong roommate (fear) and you talk about him, say, in a controlling, dismissive or derogatory way. You say things like; ‘he’s not even real, he holds me back, he needs to be gotten rid of.’ Can you see that, under these circumstances, your roommate has no recourse but to fight back in an equally aggressive way?

Keep it up –over time you and fear only stay engaged in a mutually escalating war.

All this happens because of how to view and subsequently talk about fear. Until you stop such language, fear will continue to retaliate, and your emotional issue will only get worse.

“The best thing you can do to feel better, is to change your language about fear. Do this, not only will fear calm right down, but everything you want will follow."

-Kristen Ulmer

Why This Works

Here’s What You'll Learn

This is an actual dictionary, with specific and words and sentences you’ll use, to replace how you normally speak about fear. It’s extremely thorough, and covers hundreds of scenarios.

Without this dictionary, because of existing cultural and learned norms you blindly come back to dismissive language again and again, which leads to emotional issues such as irrational fear, PTSD, insomnia, anxiety, depression and more.

With it, these problems instead, are finally on target to become a thing of the past.
By studying this guide, you learn:

  • If you have a fear or anxiety problem, exactly what caused it
  • Why such problems are rampant in our society, based on old, outdated views about fear
  • How to end your war with fear, forever
  • How to stop negative self-talk without engaging in spiritual bypassing
  • How to speak about your fear / anxiety so you no longer feel embarrassed about it, or compelled to hide it
  • How to talk to others who struggle with fear or anxiety, in the proper way
  • What to say to someone who’s blaming their emotions on you
  • What to say to someone who’s shaming you for feeling fear
  • How to be vulnerable and have it feel real and non-threatening
  • How to be honest and authentic regarding what you feel, to yourself and others
  • What to say to your kids about fear, so they don’t grow up to have anxiety or other issues
  • What to say to your kids, so they grow up instead to be courageous, thriving adults

And much more…

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Kristen has helped tens of thousands of clients make powerful perspective shifts around fear and anxiety

Now it’s your turn

If you only take one single action step regarding your fear or anxiety, changing your language should be it. It’s crucial to make this shift, and will lead to the end of irrational fear, lower your anxiety, start the process to turn around PTSD or depression and so much more. Which is why in every course, event or talk, Kristen emphasizes changing your language first, and foremost.

Unlike anything you’ve ever seen or imaged before, this guide will dramatically change your perspective forever, thus changing how you talk to yourself about fear and anxiety, and to others.

Not only that, you’ll also be on the cutting edge of desperately needed progress, becoming an influencer the world needs to stop the madness of negative self talk. With this guide, you and others will quite simply, never experience fear, anxiety or the nature of the human experience the same way again.

Here’s how it works:

STEP 1 :  Click the Add to Cart button, then checkout using our secure checkout page
STEP 2 : You will immediately be sent a download link to view the guide
STEP 3 : You can always find the guide in the download section of myaccount
STEP 4 :   Start reading, have that perspective shift, and start speaking your new inclusive language

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