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This is the #1 most important step I recommend, to turn any fear or anxiety problem around.

When I work with clients looking to solve any emotional problem, right away I’m on the lookout for what they say about Fear. The reason being, however they speak about this core emotion, is how they speak about themselves.

If they say things like ‘I hate fear,’ because fear is such a huge part of our makeup, it’s akin to saying ‘I hate myself.’  If they say ‘I ignore fear,’ it’s akin to saying ‘I ignore what’s going on in my life.’ Such words reveal exactly what we’re dealing with, and I base what happens next on such language.

And, far too often, here’s what I see; imagine you have a lifelong roommate (fear) and you talk about him in a controlling, dismissive or derogatory way. You say things like; ‘he’s not even real, he holds me back, he needs to be conquered,’ and more. Can you see that roommate has no recourse but to fight and project back, in an equally aggressive way?

Keep it up, over time you and fear only become engaged in a mutually escalating war. Fear becomes more clever, showing up in ever growing, weird or disjointed ways. All this happens because of how to view and subsequently talk about fear. Until you stop such language, your emotional issues will only get worse.

“The best thing you can do to feel better, is change your language about fear. Everything that you want, will follow.”—

- The Art of Fear

Why This Works

    Changing your language modernizes your perspective. It’s the crucial first step leading to emotional change.

    Forever you’ve been taught to speak about fear as something to be overcome, let go of, controlled or rationalized away. This language creates the very environment, that causes your emotional problems in the first place. No one likes to be controlled or conquered, least of all an emotion as strong as fear.

    It’s not just semantics either. Words matter. How so? Ask yourself, what’s the first thing you’d think to do, to end a war with your roommate? You’d start talking to and about him in a kinder way, that’s what. Which would soften things immediately. The roommate (fear) will in turn, be kinder back. He’ll calm right down, and so too, will you.

    Keep it up, your emotional issues will start to resolve.

    Now, you may be thinking, ‘Hell no! Fear started it. He should talk nicer to me! But you don’t want to stay in that outdated, exhausting mindset. Fighting a war with fear hasn’t worked for you, or for anyone. Resisting your biology, will not gain you the results you desire.

    What will, is an entirely new fear paradigm found in this guide, which better matches today’s evolving world and all we now understand. But that shift won’t happen on its own. It comes only if and when you learn how to start speaking about fear in a modern way.

    Who is this Guide For?

    Do you:

    • struggle with fear, anxiety, or other emotional issues
    • struggle with confidence
    • have a loved one who struggles with any of the above
    • speak about fear as if it’s a bad thing
    • are convinced fear is a bad thing
    • feel embarrassed about your fear or other emotional issues
    • suspect you repress or ignore fear, and know that you shouldn’t do that
    • suspect a more honest, considerate relationship with your fear might be helpful
    • have kids and want to make sure they grow up to be emotionally healthy adults
    • are tired of doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results
    • hate fighting a war with yourself, and want it to finally end
    • want to live a bigger, more honest, or relaxed life
    • are tired of being stuck on old patterns, and feel ready to make a change

    If any of these apply, you’ll be very excited by this language guide and what it offers.

Here’s what you'll Learn

This is an actual dictionary, with specific and words and sentences you’ll use to replace how you normally speak about fear. It’s extremely thorough, and covers hundreds of scenarios.

Without this dictionary, because of existing norms you’ll only blindly come back to dismissive language again and again, which leads to irrational fear, looping anxiety, eventual depression and more. With it, these problems will soon become a thing of the past.


You’ll learn:

  • If you have a fear or anxiety problem, exactly what caused it
  • Why such problems are rampant in our society, based on old, outdated standards on how we’ve been taught to view and speak about fear
  • How to end your war with fear, forever
  • How to stop negative self-talk
  • How to speak about your fear / anxiety so you no longer feel embarrassed about it, or compelled to hide it
  • How to talk to others who struggle with fear or anxiety, in the proper way
  • What to say to someone who’s blaming their emotions on you
  • What to say to someone who’s shaming you for feeling fear
  • How to be vulnerable and have it feel non-threatening
  • How to be honest and authentic regarding what you feel, to yourself and others
  • What to say to your kids about fear, so they don’t grow up to have anxiety or other issues
  • What to say to your kids, so they grow up instead to be courageous, thriving adults

And much more…

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Kristen has helped tens of thousands of clients make powerful perspective shifts around fear and anxiety.

Now it’s your turn

If you only take one single action step regarding your fear or anxiety, changing your language should be it. It’s crucial to make this shift, and will lead to the end of irrational fear, lower your anxiety, start the process to turn around depression and more. Which is why, in every course, event or talk, I emphasize changing your language first and foremost.

Unlike anything you’ve ever seen or imaged before, this guide will dramatically change your perspective, change how you talk to yourself, and change how to talk to other people about fear and anxiety.  With it, you’ll be on the cutting edge of desperately needed progress, being the change the world needs to stop the madness of fear, anxiety and other emotional problems that cripple too many of us. Not only is your life about to change, but with this guide you’ll never experience yourself, other people, fear, or anxiety the same way again.

Here’s how it works:

STEP 1 :  Click the Add to Cart button, then checkout using our secure checkout page

STEP 2 : You will immediately be sent a download link to view the manual

STEP 3 : You can always find the manual in the download section of myaccount

STEP 4 :   Start reading and start speaking your new inclusive language

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    Most efforts to deal with fear or anxiety are about symptom control –calming you down only for a moment or day. Which never lasts. They’re also, as you’ll soon learn, exacerbating your fear or anxiety, which keeps you stuck in a cycle of symptom control that can become relentless.

    My approach is completely different. It only addresses the root cause of your problem. It’s proven to work. And if it doesn’t, heck, with a money back guarantee, you have nothing to lose!

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    1. $29 puts this information within reach of everyone… from single moms to entrepreneurs and beyond.
    2. It makes sure you’re serious. I only want to reach people who are truly ready to address and resolve their emotional problems, and in my experience charging anything… even if it’s just a dollar… eliminates 99% of the folks who aren’t.

    I also believe that once you experience this manual, that you’ll want more of what I have to offer. And maybe… just maybe… you’ll come back with an even greater curiosity to see what else is possible, with this unique and powerful work.

    And that’s it. No fine print…no hidden nasties…no spinning words. Just super practical advice that will gain you completely different results than anything you’ve ever tried before

    Besides the dramatic price difference? Three reasons:

    First, emotional problems are not meant to be dealt with intellectually. Which is why talking and thinking about your fear with a therapist won’t help. Instead, as you’ll soon learn, they’re meant to be dealt with emotionally.

    Second, therapists learn about fear or anxiety as theory in college. I learned by dealing with a tremendous amount of fear and anxiety, experimenting with exactly what works and what doesn’t, leading me to become the best in the world at something very scary for 12 years. This makes my methods very practical, based entirely on experience, and also explains why they work so well. Consider this as you make your choice.

    Third, what I teach isn’t yet available in college curriculum, which means therapists don’t know about this yet. It’s only available here.

    YES! Check out my testimonials. Plus, once it all gets broken down, it’s so shockingly obvious what the problem has been for you and what to do instead, you’ll be surprised you never thought of this before.

    Of course! All of my content and trainings have a 5-week, no-questions-asked guarantee.

    If you aren’t happy for any reason, just let me or my team know and we’ll give you your money back. We obviously don’t think it’ll come to that, but if you’re even the least bit worried, let me put your mind at ease. Either you’ll get the answers and results you want or you get your money back. It’s that simple.

    5-week money back guarantee. If you experience the manual and it doesn’t offer you all it promises and more, send us an email and you’ll get a full refund