When I work with clients looking to solve any emotional problem, right away I’m on the lookout for what they say about Fear. The reason being, however they speak about this core emotion, is how they speak about themselves.
If they say things like ‘I hate fear,’ because fear is such a huge part of our makeup, it’s akin to saying ‘I hate myself.’ If they say ‘I ignore fear,’ it’s akin to saying ‘I ignore what’s going on in my life.’ Such words reveal exactly what we’re dealing with, and I base what happens next on such language.
And, far too often, here’s what I see; imagine you have a lifelong roommate (fear) and you talk about him in a controlling, dismissive or derogatory way. You say things like; ‘he’s not even real, he holds me back, he needs to be conquered,’ and more. Can you see that roommate has no recourse but to fight and project back, in an equally aggressive way?
Keep it up, over time you and fear only become engaged in a mutually escalating war. Fear becomes more clever, showing up in ever growing, weird or disjointed ways. All this happens because of how to view and subsequently talk about fear. Until you stop such language, your emotional issues will only get worse.
“The best thing you can do to feel better, is change your language about fear. Everything that you want, will follow.”—
Forever you’ve been taught to speak about fear as something to be overcome, let go of, controlled or rationalized away. This language creates the very environment, that causes your emotional problems in the first place. No one likes to be controlled or conquered, least of all an emotion as strong as fear.
It’s not just semantics either. Words matter. How so? Ask yourself, what’s the first thing you’d think to do, to end a war with your roommate? You’d start talking to and about him in a kinder way, that’s what. Which would soften things immediately. The roommate (fear) will in turn, be kinder back. He’ll calm right down, and so too, will you.
Keep it up, your emotional issues will start to resolve.
Now, you may be thinking, ‘Hell no! Fear started it. He should talk nicer to me! But you don’t want to stay in that outdated, exhausting mindset. Fighting a war with fear hasn’t worked for you, or for anyone. Resisting your biology, will not gain you the results you desire.
What will, is an entirely new fear paradigm found in this guide, which better matches today’s evolving world and all we now understand. But that shift won’t happen on its own. It comes only if and when you learn how to start speaking about fear in a modern way.
Do you:
• struggle with fear, anxiety, or other emotional issues
• struggle with confidence
• have a loved one who struggles with any of the above
• speak about fear as if it’s a bad thing
• are convinced fear is a bad thing
• feel embarrassed about your fear or other emotional issues
• suspect you repress or ignore fear, and know that you shouldn’t do that
• suspect a more honest, considerate relationship with your fear might be helpful
• have kids and want to make sure they grow up to be emotionally healthy adults
• are tired of doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results
• hate fighting a war with yourself, and want it to finally end
• want to live a bigger, more honest, or relaxed life
• are tired of being stuck on old patterns, and feel ready to make a change
If any of these apply, you’ll be very excited by this language guide and what it offers.
This is an actual dictionary, with specific and words and sentences you’ll use to replace how you normally speak about fear. It’s extremely thorough, and covers hundreds of scenarios.
Without this dictionary, because of existing norms you’ll only blindly come back to dismissive language again and again, which leads to irrational fear, looping anxiety, eventual depression and more. With it, these problems will soon become a thing of the past.
You’ll learn:
And much more…
If you only take one single action step regarding your fear or anxiety, changing your language should be it. It’s crucial to make this shift, and will lead to the end of irrational fear, lower your anxiety, start the process to turn around depression and more. Which is why, in every course, event or talk, I emphasize changing your language first and foremost.
Unlike anything you’ve ever seen or imaged before, this guide will dramatically change your perspective, change how you talk to yourself, and change how to talk to other people about fear and anxiety. With it, you’ll be on the cutting edge of desperately needed progress, being the change the world needs to stop the madness of fear, anxiety and other emotional problems that cripple too many of us. Not only is your life about to change, but with this guide you’ll never experience yourself, other people, fear, or anxiety the same way again.
Here’s how it works:
STEP 1 : Click the Add to Cart button, then checkout using our secure checkout page
STEP 2 : You will immediately be sent a download link to view the manual
STEP 3 : You can always find the manual in the download section of myaccount
STEP 4 : Start reading and start speaking your new inclusive language
