When I work with clients looking to solve any emotional problem, right away I’m on the lookout for what they say about Fear. The reason being, however they speak about this core emotion, is how they speak about themselves.
If they say things like ‘I hate fear,’ because fear is such a huge part of our makeup, it’s akin to saying ‘I hate myself.’ If they say ‘I ignore fear,’ it’s akin to saying ‘I ignore what’s going on in my life.’ Such words reveal exactly what we’re dealing with, and I base what happens next on such language.
And, far too often, here’s what I see; imagine you have a lifelong roommate (fear) and you talk about him in a controlling, dismissive or derogatory way. You say things like; ‘he’s not even real, he holds me back, he needs to be conquered,’ and more. Can you see that roommate has no recourse but to fight and project back, in an equally aggressive way?
Keep it up, over time you and fear only become engaged in a mutually escalating war. Fear becomes more clever, showing up in ever growing, weird or disjointed ways. All this happens because of how to view and subsequently talk about fear. Until you stop such language, your emotional issues will only get worse.
“The best thing you can do to feel better, is change your language about fear. Everything that you want, will follow.”—
This is an actual dictionary, with specific and words and sentences you’ll use to replace how you normally speak about fear. It’s extremely thorough, and covers hundreds of scenarios.
Without this dictionary, because of existing norms you’ll only blindly come back to dismissive language again and again, which leads to irrational fear, looping anxiety, eventual depression and more. With it, these problems will soon become a thing of the past.
And much more…
If you only take one single action step regarding your fear or anxiety, changing your language should be it. It’s crucial to make this shift, and will lead to the end of irrational fear, lower your anxiety, start the process to turn around depression and more. Which is why, in every course, event or talk, I emphasize changing your language first and foremost.
Unlike anything you’ve ever seen or imaged before, this guide will dramatically change your perspective, change how you talk to yourself, and change how to talk to other people about fear and anxiety. With it, you’ll be on the cutting edge of desperately needed progress, being the change the world needs to stop the madness of fear, anxiety and other emotional problems that cripple too many of us. Not only is your life about to change, but with this guide you’ll never experience yourself, other people, fear, or anxiety the same way again.
Here’s how it works:
STEP 1 : Click the Add to Cart button, then checkout using our secure checkout page
STEP 2 : You will immediately be sent a download link to view the manual
STEP 3 : You can always find the manual in the download section of myaccount
STEP 4 : Start reading and start speaking your new inclusive language